“Why did Santa bring my friend more presents?”
If your child compares gifts with a friend, let them tell you what hurt before you explain your family’s choices.
When your child comes home comparing presents, resist guessing what happened in another house. “That sounds disappointing. What did your friend tell you?” gives them space to say whether they wanted a particular toy, felt left out or are worried they did something wrong.
Keep worth out of the explanation
Do not suggest that Santa rewards “good” children with more. Adults choose gifts within different circumstances, and children do not control that. If your family tells a Santa story, you can say that every household plans its Christmas differently and that a bigger pile does not measure love.
You might say: “I can see why you wanted one too. We chose these gifts for you, and the number of presents doesn’t say anything about how good you’ve been.” Let them feel disappointed before you suggest something else. A shared afternoon with the new game they already have may be more helpful than a lecture about gratitude.